When you hear “office romance”, you may have to laugh at the gossip and cliches of Xiaobian. However, in a survey on “office romance” on a website, the participation rates of people with working experience of less than one year, 1% 3 years, 3% 5 years, 5% 10 years and more were 14.4%, 30.6%, 30.6%, 18.9% and 14.5% respectively. It seems that whether you are a young white-collar who is new to the workplace or a professional elite who has worked for many years, you will bow to this topic. Today, we might as well follow the public opinion and boast about an office romance.
Love affair
I don’t know when love began. In a corner of the office, a bunch of attention began to follow you. Slowly, you find the master of the eyes, and the sweet smell gradually ferments. You become eager to go to work, pay attention to what you wear at work, and even begin to desire to work overtime… So, you have a little more friendship than ordinary colleagues, and a little more emotion than ordinary friendship.
The price of love finally became a lot one day. They announced, “we are in love!” The pursuit of happiness comes at a price. The biggest challenge of office romance is rumors from colleagues and objections from supervisors, and sometimes even the risk of violating the company’s ban. But you disdain: “it’s a big deal to leave!” Work can be missed, but happiness must be grasped, your logic.
Love me for a long time. Getting along with that person takes up most of your time: eating together, working together, working overtime together… You are still not satisfied. You begin to yearn for life in the “Besieged City”. You look forward to the day when you step onto the red carpet hand in hand.
The end of love does not mean that the prince and princess can live happily together in the end. In the office, you and that person pass by without seeing each other; After work, you are left alone. Looking at the empty seat, you hear the sound of something breaking. You start to be afraid of going to work, and you are eager to escape from the cold reinforced concrete world.
Motive force of love
All of you who know you get along day and night, and you won’t come together mistakenly because you don’t know.
Love you not from your lover day and night, even when you go to the bathroom, which effectively reflects “zero distance”.
Simply love you don’t have to sleep two hours less to send her to work in the morning, or suffer the glare of the boss or the laughter of colleagues to pick her up from work, nor do you have to worry about adjusting your different time arrangements.
Love needs refueling. How can you allow yourself to be in such a predicament when you fall in love? You lose face in front of your lover because your boss scolds you. You will only work harder and make achievements to show your lovers. It is said that people in love will secrete a lot of hormones, and their spirits will often be in an excited state. The phenomenon of dozing off at work will certainly disappear.
Amorous feelings
Crystal Love “my love with you is like crystal, without burden, secret, clean and transparent.” As the song sings, the love between unmarried men and women is no different from that in the general sense. The office only gives them the chance to meet and love.
But perhaps one day they will find that it is not a romantic thing to go out and enter the couple every day because they have lost their relatively independent space. Absence makes the heart grow fonder Then, it’s better to distance yourself a little in your work.
Hiroshima love “has crossed the border of morality. We have walked through the forbidden zone of love, enjoyed the illusion of happiness, and misunderstood the meaning of happiness.” Such lyrics seem to reflect the kind of “love” that originated between married men and women. The passionate love between husband and wife gradually fades in the ordinary days, but you still have a desire in your heart, and the workplace is the most legitimate place to contact the opposite sex.
This kind of feeling is often sincere at first, but not many end well. It’s better to get out of the mess in time. Sometimes to maintain a pure friendship is to maintain a lasting romance and beauty.
No matter whether the boss seduces the subordinates or the employees flatter the boss, such a so-called “love” for utilitarian purposes makes people see no way out. In fact, there is no truth to speak of in this. What is more, it is just a trade between body and power. The office provides them with a convenience.
This so-called “love” can’t bring people good pleasure, let alone good results. Wise people, don’t lose your money by losing your wife and your army.
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