myth 1: treat your old lover as a saboteur and an imaginary enemy, and become a fire and water with him / her
Analysis: the result of doing this can only make him / her in a dilemma in the middle. If you really love him / her, you should respect the person he / she once loved, provided that they have no relationship with each other. Love belongs to two people and has nothing to do with the third party. Trying to inquire about his / her past is tantamount to making trouble! If his / her old scar is uncovered, it will not be so simple as self disturbance. It may end up with a Peacock Flying Southeast.
trick: open one eye and close one
Opening one eye and closing one is definitely not to let you appease the overly close relationship between them. Instead, give your lover more space and time so that he / she will not feel pressure because of being with you. Everyone wants to have a vanilla mountain that only belongs to him / her. If there is love, we should not destroy its mystery and allow him / her to retain his / her rights in the past.
Myth 2: he / she always keeps an ambiguous relationship with his / her old lover. This makes you unhappy. Just make a big row with him / her and let the fish die and the net break
Analysis: making a big noise will only lead to a deadlock in your relationship. If you still want to redeem this relationship, you may as well suppress your anger and calm down to think about how to solve it.
trick: hard and soft
If you find that he / she is still in an ambiguous relationship with his / her old lover, remember, never make a scene, even if you are trying to pretend to be considerate. Analyze the reason with him / her in simple terms and observe his / her reaction and attitude. I suggest that both of us should look for the feeling of loving each other in our hearts.
myth 3: he / she broke up with his / her old lover because of you. He / she always feels ashamed of him / her and his / her old lover
Analysis: in the process of your communication, if you always feel guilty, your feelings for him / her will not be completely released, and you can only maintain them carefully. You are not only tired, but also lose the significance of sticking together at the beginning.
tricks: psychology hint
I hinted that I didn’t need to be too sorry. He / she chooses you just because he / she loves you more and you are more suitable for him / her. Cherish the rare fate between us, go on, and see all the beautiful scenery together.
myth 4: his / her old lover tries every means to disturb you, calculate on you, and alienate you from his / her relationship. You are hard to tell, just like the heroine of Korean drama
Analysis: ugly people will eventually expose their ugly faces. You don’t have to bow your head and admit defeat at all. You must fight the saboteurs to the end and defend your love. Accepting fate will only make him / her feel that you have acquiesced to the false words of the saboteur.
trick: Copper pea spirit
In the face of the destroyer of your relationship with him / her, you must have the “copper pea spirit” – not steaming, boiling, beating or frying. Soldiers come to block you, water comes to earth, find out the evidence that a third party framed you, and use the facts to clear yourself. You should firmly believe that he / she who loves you will understand your character and will not listen to the willful instigation of his / her old lover. Obstacles sometimes make each other cherish each other more and come closer.
myth 5: his / her old lover is beautiful, generous and decent, or successful in business, natural and unrestrained handsome. Is he / she forced to choose me? Whether he really loves an ordinary person like me
Analysis: it doesn’t matter who his / her old lover is. Even if he / she is super intelligent and rich, since it is you who are next to him / her in the end, you should believe that love is better than all attached conditions. How else did the prince choose Cinderella?
trick: full of confidence
Self confidence is always the best weapon. Don’t feel inferior because you are not as good as his / her old lover. If he / she loves you, he / she must hope that you are a confident partner. Attachment conditions are not the most important criterion for choosing a mate. Otherwise, Prince Charles would not choose the latter between Diana and Camilla!
listen to everything
Of course, in the face of his / her old lover, we may as well listen to other people’s stories and attitudes in addition to seeing and telling the truth.
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