The reporter of life times recently interviewed the founder of “kissing school” and American sexologist Julie bird to teach readers how to kiss better.
kissing requires learning
Although most of the kissing skills of couples in the world are self-taught or self-taught, sexologists agree that kissing needs special learning. American writer and sexologist Valerie Blu pointed out in her book how to kiss: “through learning, every time you kiss, you will kiss into his (her) heart.”
The reporter learned that this unique kissing school was founded in 1998, and 1800 people have graduated from it. The tuition fee for each couple is about $475. Each teaching is conducted in small classes, with an average of more than a dozen couples in the class. Here, kissing is a complex science, including popular science knowledge and practical methods. Soft music was playing in the classroom. At the beginning, the students hugged and danced with each other, then kissed their foreheads, faces, and finally their lips matched and kissed affectionately. From time to time, the teacher told the students the essentials of each step in a calm voice. Most of the students are couples or couples. Many learners said that it was a worthwhile trip, and learning made them closer.
knowledge about kissing
“For thousands of years, people’s exploration of kissing has never stopped. Anthropologists and biologists have discovered a lot of science about kissing. We will teach these to learners in school,” Frey bird told reporters
When kissing, the 34 muscles of a person work at the same time, some controlling the lips and some controlling the tongue.
Secondly, the nose plays an important role in kissing. Before and after kissing, the two sides not only exchange eyes, but also share smells. Hormone receptors are hidden in the mucous membrane of human olfactory organs, which help judge whether the opposite sex is “the one that suits you”.
Again, a kiss is enough for life. A study published by psychologist Gordon Gallup shows that when kissing, five pairs of brain nerves transmit information from the lips, tongue and nose to the brain, and then the brain processes the information. A kiss is enough for a couple to confirm the future direction of development: to get married or go their separate ways.
Finally, most people tilt their heads to the right when kissing. Freud believed that infant sucking was the direct origin of kissing. A study published in the journal Nature shows that most people tilt their heads to the right when kissing. This phenomenon may be due to 80% of mothers’ habit of holding their babies on the left side when breastfeeding.
How can kissing be better?
To improve your kissing skills, readers can follow these tips.
deep breathing. Some people hold their breath when kissing, so they can’t keep arousing passion, nor can they kiss for a long time. Breathe deeply, find out the rhythm of breathing in sync with your partner, and feel that they are in the same time and space.
Keep eye contact. Don’t always close your eyes. Establishing visual contact can bring energy to two people.
Set some time for kissing. Tell your partner as often as possible that you want to kiss him or her. Every morning and before bed are good times to kiss.
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