Reporter’s follow-up interview: Kung Fu superstar Jet Li said, “all my money is kept by my wife!” Oscar winning director Ang Lee said, “my wife decides everything at home.” Taiwan cartoonist Chu Teh Yung also said with certainty: everything is based on the wife. If you are an ox or a horse, you will never die.
“Hen pecked”, as the name implies, is that your wife is very strict with you, listens to her in everything and always listens to her. She makes you go east and you dare not go west. Recently, an online ranking of China’s “hen pecked” cities listed the top four cities, and Wuhan ranked third. Wuhan men come to watch quickly to see if they have been shot.
active – coaxing is the best policy, never talking back.
“There are no henpecked men, only men who respect their wives.” Mr. Zhou, who lives in Xudong, said with a smile. He is 47 years old and has been married for nearly 20 years. His wife is an acute person, and he is a slow person. He quarrels all day about trivial matters, but the husband and wife never have an “overnight feud”. His “secret” is never to talk back when his wife is angry, but to coax her.
Because of his work, Mr. Zhou spends more time at home. Once, when his wife came home from work at night, she saw that there was nothing in the kitchen, but Mr. Zhou was sitting in front of the computer surfing the Internet. She immediately became angry and shouted at him: “I don’t do anything at home every day. I have to do it alone!” In the face of “the roar of the lion in the East”, he not only wasn’t angry, but smiled and said, “don’t be angry, don’t be angry, I’ll do it right away.” After more than ten minutes, his wife looked at Mr. Zhou busy in the kitchen, and her anger was relieved. It didn’t take long for the two of them to eat happily together.
“I feel that ‘hen pecked’ is a kind of respect from gay men to lesbians. I’m very moved that my husband can tolerate me every time I get angry. In fact, there is no deep hatred between husband and wife. As long as he coaxes me, my anger will disappear.” Mrs. Zhou said she was very satisfied.
passive type – unwilling to be controlled, the word “forbearance” takes the lead
It is said that in order to select a “henpecked” colleague, the employees of the marketing department of a real estate company in Optics Valley coincidentally locked in Xiao Xu, but Xiao Xu himself felt that the title of “henpecked” was a disgrace and would not be recognized.
Xiao Xu is 30 years old this year. After falling in love with his girlfriend Xiao Li for 4 years, he entered the palace of marriage. Now he has been married for 2 years. Xiao Xu commented on his wife in this way: being honest in front of outsiders and being unreasonable in front of his family is a typical “bully in the nest”! His economy was completely blocked. He had only a hundred yuan on him every day, and he had to report his whereabouts to his wife 24 hours a day. Occasionally, when playing mahjong with colleagues and friends, they will encounter a fatal soul call. Gradually, his colleagues and friends gave him the nickname “hen pecked husband” and gradually began to alienate him.
He once got angry with his wife, but it was he who bowed his head first to beg for peace. “I only have this interest, but my wife doesn’t like me playing cards. I have to sneak or lie occasionally to go out and play. I can’t accept people calling me ‘hen pecked’!” Xiao Xu said that when his wife gave him a cold eye, he felt that life would definitely not be easy. Generally, he would sit still, observe secretly, and then try to coax him. (trainee reporter he ting and correspondent Zhou Yanran)
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