If you fall in love for the purpose of marriage, if you have the idea of falling in love with him and then getting married, you should do five things when you fall in love, so that you can continue to enter marriage and warm family life with him.
1. It is more important to choose a man who loves himself.
Choosing a man can open the floodgates of marriage, and women must go through this process.
Getting to know a man is the first step in marriage. In this process, women should not throw themselves into their feelings easily. They can fully understand men. This can not only expand their contact with men, but also understand what kind of men they need through comparison.
A real man can’t be seen from his appearance. In addition to choosing a man’s appearance, women also need to understand a man’s growth experience, growth story, type of friends, hobbies, attitude to dealing with problems, and a man’s future dreams, so as to comprehensively judge a man’s morality, will and potential. A man who has willpower and morality and works hard at the same time, although the current conditions are not very good, such a man has great potential, just like a potential stock, such a man should be the first one for women.
Choosing a man who loves himself is more important than choosing a man who loves himself. Men are born to like to be hunters, and men will resist it from the bottom of their hearts to let them become emotional prisoners. There is no need for women to do such foolish things, but many women just do so, so there are many sad stories. This is not necessarily a man’s fault, but a woman’s stupidity.
2. Learn to respect and accept men’s family members.
Since ancient times, the world of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a world full of contradictions, which is an iron rule. Some women may say that they have a good relationship with their mother-in-law, but statistically speaking, mother-in-law daughter-in-law fights are common and normal. When women get other people’s sons, they should learn to handle well with men’s elders. The kind of blindly criticizing others can only make women fall into the mire of emotion, and it is always the woman who gets hurt in the end. A wise woman should learn to put an end to such contradictions between her mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law, because she may become a mother-in-law one day. Learning to respect your mother-in-law can also eliminate conflicts such as aunt and sister-in-law. In short, learning to respect men’s family members actually creates a good environment for women themselves. Of course, some women will say: why should women accept a man’s family? Because in reality, many men are trying to please women and their families, it is rare for men to do this.
3. Accept a man’s personality
To accept a man means to accept his personality and many things that exist in him. Although the existence may not be reasonable, it is difficult to change a man’s characteristics through love. A woman who is obsessed with cleanliness asks men to wash their hands many times every day. Men are very bored and complain a lot. It is selfish to insist on asking men by their own standards. A man who loves a woman will take the initiative to change himself, but it can only be a woman’s delusion to completely change himself to cater to women. Women must have such psychological preparations before they get married.
4. Modify your personality
Like the above question, this question is only about how to make the life of husband and wife more harmonious from the perspective of women. Everyone has his own personality or characteristics, but in the process of communication and life with men, women should learn to correct their personality. Just imagine if both men and women ask each other to adapt to themselves, such men and women can’t live together. In fact, to a certain extent, marriage means that men and women give up their own characteristics to find common intersections. The more intersections, the more harmonious marriage will become. However, this does not mean that women completely give up themselves to cater to men, but that women need to revise themselves to win a stable and harmonious marriage. This is true of women, and of course it is true of men.
5. Handle the relationship between marriage and work well
Love is beautiful, marriage is boring. After the wedding, love came to the earth from heaven, and romance was gradually replaced by reality.
A realistic marriage needs a realistic pillar to maintain emotional stability. In the face of insurmountable pregnancy, childbirth and housework, women devote more love and energy to their families and men. Men are more looking for and practicing opportunities for development. Thus, there is a contradiction between the development of men and the stagnation of women, and between the boring life and the seductive world faced by men. In the face of such contradictions, many women are always the victims of real marriage. Maybe women will scold men for eating their conscience, but such compassion can’t call back men’s cheating hearts. What do women use to support themselves in the face of collapsed or collapsed love?
If women can consider this issue when they are in love, I think many women will choose work to support their possible miserable life. This is rational and what women should do. Work is not only the backbone of men but also women. Of course, many women expect to realize their dreams of wealth and honor by becoming rich men’s husbands, which is beyond reproach. It’s just that women need to bear the consequences of this choice.
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