don’t treat “buddy” as your boyfriend
I believe that if you really ask them face to face, these boys may also be confused. Maybe they will say: it is because they always want to maintain friendship with you that they will contact you frequently without fear!
Yes, there are often two possibilities for a man to contact a girl frequently: one is to chase you deliberately and create intimate opportunities; One is that I have no idea to chase you at all, and I have never thought of “love” in my mind, so I can treat you as a friend. Of course, in today’s society, many girls are willing to be men’s “buddies”, because in women’s small minds, they always feel that there is love when there is contact. Over time, friendship will gradually become love.
Therefore, the premise for women to regard a man as a friend is often that the man is not too annoying, the conditions are not too bad, and there is room for further development
why don’t the opposite sex like me
I have always been popular among my male classmates and colleagues, and I am also one of the female friends they contact more. But when I think that some people can develop love, why can’t I get a nod from each other? I am 25 years old this year. I think my external and internal conditions are OK. Then when they find a love partner, I think those girls are not better than me, or even worse. I’m very unbalanced in my heart. I don’t know what they think. If they only want to maintain friendship with me, why do they contact me so frequently and let me misunderstand? The problem is that I have encountered similar problems several times. I feel that my self-confidence has disappeared all of a sudden. I am very depressed. I just don’t know what happened. Help me analyze what they think. What’s the reason why they only talk about friendship with me, not love? You’re a little less feminine
However, after all, not most women can eventually develop “buddies” into “boyfriends”. More girls’ secret love and unrequited love will only end in a wordless ending. It has to be said that some women are born not to be treated as objects of love by men. Even if you are closer to them, you will still become two parallel lines with them. Including girls like you who have too many male confidants.
In your mind, you may feel that you have a lot of “friends”. It seems that you are surrounded every day. In the future, you will have more choices in choosing a mate. In fact, this is not the case. You know, most men don’t like to find a “girl friend” to be their girlfriend. First, they think they are too familiar and rotten, and lack the heart and impulse to tell but also shame; Second, I also think that your social life is so “broad”. Even if such a girl catches up with you, it is difficult to control her. In the face of you, they will have a bit of stage fright; In addition, maybe it’s still because of your personality. Although I don’t know what kind of girl you are, I believe that girls like Lin Daiyu will definitely not be brothers with a group of men. Only girls with an open personality can make men happy to make friends! This is a good thing for women socially, but it is also a difficult thing for women emotionally, because this situation usually means that men do not want to treat you as “the opposite sex”, and they feel that you owe a little femininity.
men always want women to be more like women.
Therefore, women should understand that you think that being a man’s confidant of the opposite sex can increase their heterosexual affinity, but in fact, the truth is often the opposite. Men and women should always be at a distance to produce more aesthetic feelings. Too straightforward and frequent contact will only make people feel aesthetic fatigue. If you are really interested in those boys, when they call you out frequently, you should often say no, give each other a space to look forward to, and leave a space for attachment… So, don’t fail to understand: their girlfriends are not as good as me
Women’s eyes on the same sex are pure and rational, tall and short, fat and thin, black and white, beautiful and ugly; But men’s eyes on the opposite sex are often pure sensibility, her voice, her smile, her silent shyness… An ordinary woman in the eyes of women may be a beauty in the eyes of men. The key is to see whether your feelings are in place!
Women, to improve their charm and status, from today on, don’t go everywhere to be brothers with men! Remember a truth: no matter how the times change, men always hope that women are more like women!
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