The glass curtain wall reflects beautiful light under the sun. After a period of leisure, thousands of white-collar workers, men and women, dressed up and dressed up, returned to the office life of nine to five. Maybe a new story will happen and the old story will continue. If you spend more time with a man (woman) than your family, will it happen? Love should be a pure enjoyment, but if you happen to fall into an office romance, you may even become the protagonist of the gossip in the company. God! What should we do?
Plot a: the nutrient soil of love
Huang Fei is the creative director in the company, but she will fall in love with Li Ke, a designer with mediocre results. Advertising companies do not have fixed off-duty hours, and it is normal to go home late at night. Huang Fei always divides Li Ke into her own project team. Although she is a little tired to work with this design, she is willing to do so. Love is a thing that can’t be clapped. Rick also gradually developed his respect and worship for this plain looking female boss from respect and worship to liking and even a little dependence on her during his work.
There are many things in the world that can be concealed, but it is very difficult to have a love relationship. When making secret glances, she will be detected by pairs of intentional and unintentional eyes. After looking around, the hand that touched her waist has to be taken back in a hurry when someone comes in. The boss timely hinted that Huang Fei could not fall in love in the company, not to mention that she was the boss.
Finally, Li Ke left the company. He was very aware of his work ability and was ready to spend two years charging. They rented a room near the company. If they worked late, Huang Fei would live there. She originally thought that the two people could finally be free together, but a month later, lik proposed to break up. The reason was very simple. The office was the nutrient soil for cultivating their feelings. Since they left, their feelings had changed.
Plot B: love is love
Find a home for your body and a woman will get married. But her heart may not be wandering any more. In March of the second year after marriage, Zhenni met Zifeng, the director of another department, in a training activity organized by the company. They chatted happily together. After this, she often thought of him inexplicably and secretly scolded herself for being amorous. Zifeng went to Ningbo on a business trip at the beginning of April. He planned to return at the end of this month, but he received a notice from the company that the “SARS” situation in Beijing was serious, so he didn’t want to return first.
That night, he sent a message to Zhenni: I don’t know why. Now I miss you very much. This is a surprise, she replied: come back soon. That night they went to sleep thinking about each other. After that, she received a message from him every day. After the peak of the epidemic, the company resumed work. On Sunday evening, she received a text message from Zifeng: I will go back tomorrow. She opened her bedside table and was glad to have a facial mask. Looking forward to the scene of their reunion in her office, she thought: let him see that I am beautiful anyway
Survey: find a beloved in the office?
According to a survey conducted by a publishing company, nearly 1 / 3 of the people think that the workplace is a good place for romance, and about 40% of adult men and women have dated colleagues. However, these practitioners have come to the following conclusions:
72% warned: don’t date your boss; 70% of the people reminded: don’t agree to the dating requirements of colleagues; Even 69% admitted that dating colleagues was “playing with fire”.
For such a special form of love, listen to what people around us say:
Hu Qin Balu, male, 29 years old, freelance writer
There is a cheap person around, a cook at home, a miss in the distance, and a good-looking person in the office. It is said that these are the four greatest wishes of men. For men, having a beautiful office is always the excitement of work and enough to dilute the bad face of the boss.
Female subordinates often fall in love with male superiors. I guess the reason is that because female subordinates always look up to me, they feel aggrieved for a long time, so they try to make their male superiors bow down and try to make both sides even. Some people think that office romance is a taboo, but why? Bosses are worried about favoritism, but the world has never been fair and just. One principle: as long as you don’t turn the office into a bedroom, you can love anyone!
CHEN Si, male, 33, general manager of software development company
Rabbits don’t eat grass near their nests! There is such a piece of green grass in front of you, which is pleasant to the eyes. Once you swallow it one day, the chewing process may be full of fragrance. After chewing, there will be no beautiful scenery in front of you, but a pair of eyes will be added, which will make you lose your freedom. Isn’t it terrible?
Ang Lee, female, 27 years old, director of Planning Department of real estate company
Now the office is a stage for men and women to show their charm. Who doesn’t want to develop several admirers? In this way, they can also take care of themselves and improve their self-confidence. People in the office can flirt with each other to liven up the atmosphere. It is important to be happy at work. However, you can’t get too deep. It’s not good for anyone. It’s not fun to move your real feelings.
Andy, female, 29, marketing specialist of a foreign enterprise
I resigned from the first company because I had a love affair in the company. At that time, I was a young girl who had just graduated. There were many unfamiliar places in my work. At first, it was difficult, stressful and frustrating. At that time, a male boss who was several levels higher than me helped me a lot and made me grow up quickly. In fact, women like people who can promote their growth. He is smart and sophisticated, a bit like big in HBO’s sex and the city, which once fascinated me. But then we were all tired by this relationship, and finally I left. However, I still thank him for his help at that time. Women will not forget the men who came forward when they needed them most.
Meng Hao, male, 30, director of marketing department of the company
Falling in love in the office can only be painful. If you think about it, we meet for nearly 300 days in a year, and we have to avoid people’s eyes and ears when flirting. Besides, it’s hard for anyone not in a bad mood to get angry with his close friends. Because of this, there is a misunderstanding. In the company, you don’t have many opportunities to explain. If the other party gets angry and gets involved in work, they will be uncomfortable with each other. Sometimes it makes me like it or not. I’m too tired.
Editor’s note: you must be fully prepared before you start to choose a partner to play homophony with you in the office. If you decide to break up one day, how should you face the embarrassing situation that follows? To do this, you need to evaluate the date you choose, look at their position, and think about the consequences of breaking up. Don’t bring personal matters into the office. If you really need to discuss personal matters during office hours, go outside to discuss them, go to lunch, go to the park, or anywhere except your and her office.
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