“Big man”, “big husband”, “big man”, “little woman”, “little daughter-in-law” and so on. From these appellations, we can see that a man is always at the core of the family. Women should “give ten”, so that your men can fully feel your love.
first, give him more respect.
From ancient times to the present, the Chinese family model is that “men dominate the outside, women dominate the inside”. Therefore, women are often referred to as “insiders”, “humble insiders” or “virtuous insiders”.
Women should not fight for rights with men in the family. We might as well give the family sovereignty to the man, so that the husband can have more self-esteem, and let him be a decent man in front of others, at home and abroad. Let him always feel that he is a man, proud and proud.
Never let your husband be short of heroism and be a “receiver” or a “loser”. Men are the heaven on women’s heads, men are the backbone of the family, and this position is irreplaceable by women. Therefore, a good woman should always give her husband more self-esteem, so that her husband can straighten up and be a man with capital letters.
Second, give him more trust.
The big one says that men have their own business, and the small one says that men have to support their families. For the sake of their families, they have to deal with all kinds of people of different genders, ages and identities.
As a wife, you should fully believe in your husband and don’t have to doubt which woman your husband said more; Don’t worry. Why doesn’t he always come home? When he says busy, you believe that he is really busy. Don’t doubt that he is lying to you.
Even if you get through to him and hear that he is in a high-end hotel, you must firmly believe that he is a normal entertainment, not looking for another chic. As a wife, don’t be suspicious, let alone ask questions about your husband. You should firmly believe that your husband is just playing a trick outside, and he will always love you in the end.
Third, give him more tolerance.
Let you be tolerant, mostly because your husband has shortcomings, mistakes, or has done something sorry for you. This tolerance, from my own perspective, is really easier said than done. Because if we want to be tolerant, we must first be calm and rational.
Most women are emotional. If they are slightly unhappy, they can’t control their feelings and play with their willfulness and pettiness. In addition, women are not broad-minded enough. Whenever their husbands feel sorry for themselves, they think that they are the most unfortunate people in the world; Is the biggest victim; Is the most painful person. For this reason, he insisted on seeking justice for himself because of his grievances, and even intensified his efforts to make trouble. Little did he realize that doing so would only force his husband to walk on the road of ruthlessness.
A wise man is one who knows the times. Even if your husband really does something wrong to you, you must think calmly, weigh the gains and losses, and grasp the degree of argument with your husband. As the saying goes, there is a needle hidden in a thread, and softness overcomes hardness. As a wife, you may as well give your husband more forgiveness and tolerance. Your tolerance will move him and make him feel guilty. Only guilt can atone for sins; Only gratitude can repay.
IV. give him more care
Caring for a man is not only about making him well fed, but also about his inner world. You should fully understand what your husband needs and what he really likes. What you like is not just accommodation, but letting your husband truly realize his wishes and values.
If a woman does not understand her husband in her life, she is really a sad woman. If a woman says what her husband wants to say and does what he wants to do, you let him get everything he wants. I think my husband will not go outside to find satisfaction.
Interpersonal communication is mainly heart to heart communication, especially between husband and wife. There is a good connection between the hearts, not only by tacit understanding between two people, but also by women’s insight into the inner world of men. To be a prophet, a woman needs to be sharp in observation, careful in understanding and timely in soul collision.
v. give him more understanding
Men also have men’s difficulties and difficulties. In particular, men are bound to have more responsibilities and obligations than women because they are responsible for carrying on the important mission of inheriting and honoring their ancestors in the family. As a wife, you should learn to understand your husband. When a woman marries a man, you must remember that you not only marry him, but also the whole background behind the man. You should take the initiative to regard yourself as an important member of this big family, conscientiously perform your due responsibilities, and don’t care about your personal gains and losses. In fact, the same family, who gets the same, and once lost, it is the loss of the whole family.
Understanding a husband is to give him a stepping stone to cross the obstacles on the road; To understand a husband is to give him an umbrella to shield him from the wind and rain. To understand a husband is to give him more sympathy; Give him more mercy; Give him more support.
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