This is an era that is very close to ambiguity but far from love. In urban life, men and women inadvertently become ambiguous. We can always be ambiguous at will, eyes, hands and words. Perhaps we in this city are also unknowingly ambiguous. Those kinds of ambiguities are so close to us that everyone has the most seductive ambiguities. Here are the seven most popular ambiguities in the city. See which one can tempt you most.
ambiguous one: brother and sister or sister and brother
For “brother”, the meaning of little sister’s existence is to make him have the desire to protect her. When male heroism needs to pour out, when he feels helpless and lonely, the ingenuity and weakness of “little sister” often make him feel more comfortable than general tenderness and consideration, and her worship of him makes him feel particularly confident, which just satisfies a certain spiritual conquest desire of men. For “sister”, what she wants is very simple – to be loved and protected.
For “sister”, before she has a perfect boyfriend, “brother” is a very considerate little follower. He has the dual benefits of men and boys. He will not deliberately quarrel with her. When she is in trouble, he will not betray his oath. When her maternal nature is revealed, he has become a lovely and innocent “little thing”. For the “younger brother”, the “elder sister” is often a woman who is trustworthy and full of feminine charm.
Potential crisis: in real life, most “kinship” relationships are often difficult to evolve into real love relationships. In such relationships between men and women, there are more elements of compassion and love, less common language, let alone comparable experience. Moreover, the feelings of “younger brothers and sisters” towards “older brothers and sisters” are often more heavy and complex, and it is easy to fall into them. Once “ambiguity” is excessive and “older brothers and sisters” have lovers, “younger brothers and sisters” will inevitably become stumbling blocks.
ambiguous II: red and blue
When they are depressed, when they meet various life problems, they become fish that “help each other” and swim on their own once the sea returns to the tide. Even if both parties have lovers, some private conversations and confidants will only be told to “hongyanlanyan”.
To some extent, this kind of relationship between men and women mostly stays in the spiritual level of love. In other words, compared with the relationship between lovers, they only lack physical communication.
Even the most innocent confidant, once one of the lovers is not open and sensible, it is easy to be misunderstood as a third party; Second, after all, it is a man and a woman. Once they “drink less than a thousand cups of confidants”, they will inevitably “undress” if they are too affectionate. Once the last line of defense is broken, this “confidant” relationship will be difficult to continue.
ambiguous three: Online lover
On the Internet, they “fall in love” and even hold a wedding. They are two strangers they have never met. Word games are the source of mutual dependence and interest. They are addicted to it, and the Internet makes them look “perfect”.
Unlike most online lovers, this kind of online lovers do not meet each other. They just rely on their imagination of each other to create a variety of romantic atmosphere and assumptions.
Unlike love in real life, the cost of online lovers is very low, and they do not need to bear moral pressure.
Because what we love each other is only our own imagination and the maze created by words. So in case, in case of meeting, the consequences are hard to imagine.
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