questions:
Some of my feelings have been in my heart for two years. I feel very uncomfortable and can’t convince myself. Recently, I have some thoughts of revenge. I know that I am a very impulsive person. If I really retaliate, I don’t know what will happen.
I should be a bad woman. I have a husband and am pregnant. But I can’t put down the man I’ve known for 2 years. I’m really moved to him. I also thought about divorcing him. But he is a very rational man, and I know he will not marry me. The contradiction in my heart is that I always care about that man and care about him. But he didn’t take the initiative to pay for me. Of course, I was eager that he would occasionally buy me some snacks or give me some change to spend. I think this can prove that he has my existence in his heart. Otherwise, he has been deceiving me and playing with me.
He is a very stingy man, and he is not willing to give me any money. He will tell a lot of lies and polite words, saying that he has no money. I can’t persuade myself to put everything down. Alas, although I know I asked for it myself, it’s a pity that my feelings are real. I felt that he was sorry for me.
suggestions:
He must have no feelings for you. This is very obvious. You should have judged it long ago. The so-called unwillingness to pay is not the point. They are only behaviors developed for the reason of “no feelings”, which is the evidence of “no feelings”. Since you found out too late, I think you should take the main responsibility for your current situation. There’s nothing to retaliate against. It’s likely to cause more harm if you do something drastic. I think you can only end this low-level entanglement and start your life again.
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