In fact, the identity of single women is sometimes easy to be discovered, because they are the single type among women, and their words and deeds often have the characteristics of being single. If you are also wandering in a similar situation, then you need to compare yourself with the following content to check whether you have this kind of single woman syndrome, completely change yourself and courageously pursue yourself.
First, there must be several intimate friends in the boudoir who are similar to those nagging women in the movie infinite motion. They are all sharp tongues. Whenever they get together, they will scold every man around them and take pleasure in it. To the world’s entertainment events, including the latest Mou girl’s circumference; As small as the grassroots emotional reality, for example, the proprietress of the clothing store downstairs seems to have several friends… But in the final analysis, the topic will still focus on men. Anyway, the men around us are either inhuman or Valentine. The final conclusion is that in the context of globalization, no wonder you are single.
Sadly, even if you can find a boyfriend, he will be drowned by the saliva of your girlfriends. Since you are not a paparazzi reporter and do not have the professional need to spread gossip and embarrassment of acquaintances, why not shut your mouth and seriously consider the advantages of the men around you?
Second, the boss always calls “career oriented”, “workaholic”, “strong woman”… All kinds of appellations used to describe older single women are very tragic excuses, although you also know that “girlfriend” or “madam” are more happy appellations. Who let you be single! The boss thinks that you have no family burden and repeatedly calls you to rush to the company for a meeting within half an hour, but you still pretend to be very active and cooperative. You may comfort yourself in this way: the company’s new planning has just begun. In the first half of the year, it will be busy, and in the second half of the year, it may be a little slower – pull it down. As early as last year’s work planning period, you said to yourself in this way. It is not men but male customers who can arouse your interest. You have dedicated your youth to the company, leaving early and returning late to take your post as your home. After three years, you have finally become a middle-level cadre such as a department director. Who will be responsible for your singleness? A person has been depressed many times, but after taking stock of the men around him, he was deeply disappointed, and had to put away this reverie in the middle of “high or low”.
Third, holiday panic disorder you are very tired from work, but it is strange that you are still afraid of festivals, especially festivals like Valentine’s day. If you are single, either no one will send you roses, or you will receive more than one bouquet of roses. The former is rather bleak, which means that you have to go back to the cold nest alone, and before that, you have to endure the stimulation of lovers holding roses and holding hands closely all over the street. Maybe your ex boyfriend will give you a comforting call when he finds out in his conscience, but I’m afraid it will add to your sorrow. Finally, you have to go to bed early with the doll beside your pillow in loneliness, hoping that the next day will be sunny and you can dry your pillow. The latter seems bright, but in fact, it is still worse than good and dangerous. The relationship between you and the men who courted you on this day will not have a qualitative leap because of the arrival of the festival. The most likely result is that in a western restaurant surrounded by sweet couples, you and this man finish this absent-minded dinner seemingly in perfect harmony, and then return to the lonely nest alone with roses in hand. Gradually, your holiday panic disorder becomes more and more serious, with anxiety, confusion and idleness as the common symptoms. By the way, your birthday wish is always that you can marry off. This wish has been made for many years.
Fourth, do you subconsciously light up a cigarette when you are upset? Will you get drunk in a nightclub when you are depressed? At first, you were as pure and innocent as every girl, nicknamed like a virgin, and didn’t eat human fireworks. After breaking love and hurting again and again, you can either puff up clouds or chant to comfort your lonely heart. Anyway, no one will take care of you, and there is no need to raise children and regulate your body for the time being, so you anesthetize every thought nerve that may cause pain. Maybe you can’t call it a hobby. You don’t have any addiction to tobacco and alcohol. At best, you can only wake up with tobacco and relieve your worries with alcohol. In your opinion, you know that smoking hurts your lungs and alcohol hurts your stomach, but it’s better than being sad without smoking and alcohol, so it’s hard to quit.
Fifth, you are afraid of marriage occasions. On the surface, in front of your classmates and friends, you will still show some natural and unrestrained charm as a single person, but in your heart, you are eager to end your singleness as soon as possible – the most obvious thing is that you are afraid to hear which classmates are married again. If you only hear that, it’s OK. If you are formally invited to the wedding banquet, you will be miserable. First of all, you must face the dilemma of going to the banquet alone, while others are in pairs holding hands and backs; Then, you have to cheer up and enjoy the wedding ceremony alone – when you see the sweet and intoxicated look of the bride and groom, you have some envy, some joy, and some sadness alone. Deep down, you have mixed feelings. When you hear the intimate words spoken by the groom to the bride, do you also remember the vows of a certain year and month? When you see the bride and groom holding hands and kissing, do you remember some scenes that are still fresh in your memory? The most fatal news for single women is not to marry their boyfriends in advance. In short, other people’s wedding wine is bitter for you.
Sixth, I am passionate about blogging. With the advent of the Internet Web2.0 era, your narcissistic, self appreciative and self injurious complexes, which are single, have finally found a good space to release – blog. Although you often laugh, beat and scold with your bad friends, deep down in your heart, you still lack deep communication with each other. When you can’t find a suitable person to communicate your emotions, you have to choose to write a weblog to have a conversation with yourself – it can be a few unprovoked feelings or some trivial daily accounts. It is like an extension of daydream and a continuation of youth dream. Between the lines, there is a strong desire to talk. Although it seems that you are talking to yourself, in fact, there are always imaginary readers and reader groups. Women with harmonious and happy emotions seldom write blogs, and what they want to write is also the happy base of husband and child. On the contrary, in your blog, sentimental articles account for a large part. By the way, the click through rate of your blog is certainly not low: single women are popular on the Internet, and the blogs of single women are especially concerned.
Seventh, you are used to the life of “one person is full, the whole family is not hungry”, and you control your financial power by producing and selling your own products. When you are clear headed, you will also save a sum of money for yourself to ensure a sense of security in life. In addition, you basically let go of your surplus. Since I worked for a few years, I have spent a lot of money on the purchase of fashionable clothes and skin care and beauty products in the current season. For “shopping”, which is a combination of indoor and outdoor activities, you basically buy three or six or nine things in large quantities and buy small ones every day. I can’t describe you as unable to keep a family, because you have no family at all. You are most afraid of moving, because it is a headache to take care of those out of season clothes in your wardrobe. The only purpose of spending money is to make yourself beautiful. Of course, you will also tell yourself that this is not to attract men’s eyes, but to make yourself happy.
The eighth person is bright in front of you and messy behind you. Just like you live alone and want to end the contradictory state of being single, your daily life is also a little inconsistent. On the one hand, you pay attention to your public image and strive to maintain a fashionable appearance and proper demeanor, but on the other hand, once you return to your home, you will not care about anything. The shoes and socks of the East and the west, the clothes that are wrapped together, and the earrings that you need to find all over the room… If the bra is not an integrated design, it may also be that the eastern and western hemispheres are in a split state. The reason why you desire to have a private space of your own is that you want to hide all your laziness and sloppiness there. The reason is that you are in charge of your territory because of the lack of supervision of your other half. That’s right. Since no one came to appreciate your virtue, it’s better to go through the mess – no one at the reception would think that your sexy skirt was pulled out of the pile of clothes.
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