It’s not hard to start a relationship, but it’s hard to keep it for a long time. In love, even if two people establish a relationship, it is only a tacit role for each other. Sometimes they may not even have a verbal commitment. Unlike marriage, they can also have a marriage certificate to prove it.
Therefore, the maintenance of relationships is based on mutual trust. However, if a woman believes in your man too much and is too virtuous, it will only make him suffer from the “good family woman syndrome” and even spoil him unknowingly. If she wants to maintain her status in love, she needs to play hard, otherwise she will have unstable status in love.
Women always slowly fall in love with men, and men always like women at the first glance, because men have a love of the new and hate the old in their nature.
A man needs to rely on strange women to stimulate his nerves. Women treat him like smoking marijuana. Otherwise, he will live listlessly. But once he conquers a new object, their enthusiasm will drop in a relatively short time. Sometimes, out of curiosity, they will try to touch it, but if there is no new discovery, they may taste the rut.
men who love the new and hate the old have the following typical external :
1. When you see any strange and beautiful woman, you will come to your senses and try your best to chase her.
2. Even if he is married, he still claims to be single in front of strange women.
3. Declare that he takes every love seriously. In front of the woman who pursues, it seems persistent, sexy, affectionate, or bold and hot.
4. A beautiful woman who will soon like her lover. Lovers can easily be used as a springboard by men who love the new and hate the old.
5. Believe in the words that men are not bad and women do not love and try to practice them. Men who like the new and hate the old are interested in women. They will often take the initiative to tease and curry favor. They will take advantage of every opportunity they have, and they will take advantage of every opportunity they have.
6. I always use my cleverness to get rid of my old lover’s fetters. At the same time, he likes the new and hates the old. This kind of man is born to think of ways to get rid of the entanglement of his old lover.
if women are not cruel enough, they will spoil men.
Men’s greed and the bad habits of liking the new and hating the old make them have a restless heart. They want to do bad things, steal food, escape from the existing feelings for a while, and look for fresh stimuli outside. If they are facing a woman with a gentle personality, virtuous personality, who rarely cares about men’s affairs and always thinks that they can keep men with tenderness, they will not have any worries when new attractors appear.
So women’s tolerance has made men unbridled and spoiled them unknowingly.
Recently, there is a new term called “good family women syndrome”, which refers to those women who are too virtuous. Everything has a degree. Once it goes beyond this degree, it will fall into the other extreme. It is the same in love. A gentle woman is loved and sweet, but too virtuous will still make people feel unbearable.
attack the heart and control the man with ruthless force
There is an old saying that “attacking the city is the bottom, attacking the heart is the top”. In a relationship, women also need to have this kind of psychological attack skill that is familiar with men’s psychology. One of the most important points is perseverance. Only when you are tough enough can you control a man and hold him tightly around you; It is hot enough to drive away those fierce winds, waves and butterflies wrapped around men with momentum, so that men can stay away from temptation.
A woman who can control a man in all things must have a dignified side, which makes men afraid of it. When a man has a bad heart, the dignity of his partner will emerge in his mind. At this time, he will have a sense of himself; No, being a partner like this will definitely kill me. I can’t do this. As a result, men are less likely to do bad things.
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