“Ambiguous men” like excitement, like to deal with several women, and talk about some so-called feelings that can not be cut but also be confused. They don’t have to have a relationship with it. What they seek is some kind of stimulation, or to prove their charm in some way. Women, please stay away from “ambiguous men”!
Men and women are the main body of society, and their emotional life constitutes one story after another of the big society. Of course, there are comedies and tragedies in all kinds of stories.
If a woman does not shine her eyes and let an “ambiguous man” succeed, the story is doomed to end in tragedy from the beginning.
At this time, I suddenly remembered a sentence: “a woman who goes to her husband’s bed is equivalent to her own bed. When a woman goes to her lover’s bed, there is a vast future. When a woman goes to a stranger’s bed, she sighs…”
“Men chase women across the mountain, and women chase men across the veil.” Little brother Ma understood this sentence this way: “men chasing women across a mountain may sometimes be a mountain on a map, but also a plane. Women chasing men across a layer of yarn, which may be iron sand paper or a desert.” Is it really harder for a man to chase a woman than to climb a mountain?
There is a saying like this: chasing girls is always a simple thing. If you think you’re having a hard time chasing, you’re probably chasing the wrong person. If you have to work hard to catch up with a girl, it’s better to work hard not to catch up. Because it’s so hard to have a girlfriend. Your love is unequal from the beginning. The reason why she hesitates and refuses to agree to you is that she thinks you are not worthy of her in her primitive consciousness.
The foundation of love is that both parties have feelings. At least on the first side, both parties do not hate each other, which lays the foundation for future development.
The so-called pursuit is a means, a process, which develops, expands and accumulates the feelings of both sides. Then, when both sides find that they can’t live without this feeling, Congratulations, everything will come naturally, the confession will be successful, the dating romance, and the happiness of the two people’s world – in a word, you will become a true couple, and then you will fall into a sweet and gentle hometown. But not everyone has a good feeling for each other, that is, the so-called phenomenon of “I clock you, but you don’t clock me”. Thus, many men went to great pains and exhausted to catch up with a woman. Congratulations, too. Anyway, you finally came together. Although you spent hundreds of times more energy and thousands of times more time than others to build the same feeling, your ending is what you want.
When a woman is hurt all over or thirsty and exhausted to surpass the “iron sand paper” and “desert”, she finds herself in love with a man and is told that she has no feelings for her. So the woman uses all her passion for life just to move him, hoping to build a feeling based on moving, but in exchange for a distressing ending – an ending that has not been accepted or rejected, that is, the so-called ambiguity. The word ambiguous has been interpreted in various ways in today’s society, but no matter how the form and content change, it can not escape a sad end.
Some people say that women are masters when playing ambiguous, and beautiful women are masters among masters. Then men are the masters of these masters, and the creator of the word ambiguous is men!
Men like the feeling of being pursued. The so-called handsome man can easily mobilize your love for him. When you find that you have fallen in love with him wholeheartedly, and when you pursue and care for him with your heart, he is always cold and hot, hiding and hiding, playing with you between reality and dreams – although many times they end up unintentionally.
When night falls, his phone call or a text message will always make you think, and make you feel that he may have changed his mind about you, or that she has begun to feel for you. Who knows that as soon as you see him the next day, he is still cold and indifferent to you, watching him get along with the people around you, but turning a blind eye to you. Such a situation makes women confused and dejected.
So, sisters, please pick up your feelings. Love is another way of war. Whoever moves his feelings first in the relationship between men and women loses the whole war first. True love is difficult to establish on the basis of ambiguity (just imagine if it is true love, does it still need to fight this battle that makes one side scarred?)
Therefore, when he comes to you late at night to talk about his feelings and complain, when he sends you a few ambiguous messages from time to time, please pack up your mood and treat it with a normal heart – because he may really need a person to talk to and share his feelings at that time. You are just a suitable object at a specific time and place. Never think that this is a signal that she “likes” you, You are just the object of his chat and a reliable friend. When one day he changes his new environment, you don’t even have the chance to listen, because she will choose someone else to replace you, that’s all!
Isn’t there a sentence like that? Ambiguity is a door. You can stay outside or step into the house. Then you can’t stay under the door. Door — never the terminal.
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