Beautiful women are easy to get opportunities, whether in love, career, promotion, fame, etc. We need to find out the faults of beautiful women now, because many non beautiful women or pseudo beautiful women suffer from “beauty syndrome”. Beauty is to be comfortable, warm and healthy, which is the real beauty we want.
Here, I want to make it clear that beauty syndrome is not necessarily a “disease” of beauty, but many fake beauties like to have these so-called “beauty syndromes”, such as “sister Furong”. Real beauties should change after reading them, and encourage them if they don’t.
One of the most unbearable aspects of “beauty syndrome” is mimicry. Some women think that the bad habits and shortcomings of beautiful women are the value of beautiful women.
Beautiful women should have higher self-requirements than ordinary people, especially pay attention to improving their internal cultivation in knowledge, ability, moral quality and so on, and strive to be as one as one and add points to their charm. Otherwise, beauty will become a burden and even hinder the pace of pursuing inner beauty and healthy psychology.
“Beauty syndrome” is mostly created by men. If there is no selfish “short-term behavior” of men, such as flattery, pampering and misleading, beautiful women will not be spoiled. This is a new “male problem” that men must review.
syndrome ①: Miss temper
Beautiful women are often the focus of all kinds of occasions from childhood to the majority, and they are spoiled in all kinds of ways. Therefore, she can’t stand the feeling of being left out. If she is not valued a little, she will be “hurt”. She is ostentatious, domineering, arrogant, arrogant, used to pointing, likes to lose her temper, and does not allow others to ignore her beautiful privilege. Such a beautiful woman is often unbearable.
Prescription: experience and experience will make a flamboyant beauty return to tranquility, calmness and tolerance, so as to change from sharp to gentle. A typical example is Liu Xiaoqing, who used to be so arrogant and arrogant. However, years and experience have smoothed her edges and corners. Now she has become a fruit, more brilliant, but there is no noise of flowers. In fact, she is also more beautiful, which has become a lingering charm.
syndrome ②: cool and cool
Beauties always think that it is better to be cold, to give people a sense of distance, and to capture the hearts of men. Beautiful people often think that with beauty there is everything, so they lack the necessary enthusiasm for everything, and even lose interest. On the contrary, such beautiful people become social insulators because of their beauty, and put themselves in the cold. According to a survey by a foreign sex research institution, beautiful women often have frigidity, and the number of people with sexual disorders is 24 times higher than that of other ordinary women. The reason is that they are extremely narcissistic about their own appearance, thus blocking their body’s reactions and feelings; There are also men who look like wild bees, waves and butterflies at the sight of beautiful women, so beautiful women have an instinctive fear and even abhorrence of men, and gradually become cold.
Prescription: it’s very simple. Smile is a kind of fragrance from inside out. A beautiful woman who can’t smile is like begonia, which is gorgeous without fragrance. The soul of a flower is fragrance, and the soul of a beautiful woman should also be a smiling eye.
syndrome ③: shallow ignorance
Many jokes ridicule that beautiful women are stupid and brainless. Beautiful women often lack intellectual beauty, are shallow and ignorant. However, when beautiful women become brainless animals, they are in danger of becoming playthings of others.
Prescription: reading. A shell beauty who is ignorant and unskilled cannot stand scrutiny. Li Ang, a famous female writer, gave us a suggestion: if you go to a bar, remember to bring a book, which can reduce many unnecessary harassment. Yes, books are the Amulet of beautiful women.
syndrome ④: self pity
Beautiful women often have decadent ideas of making a fortune, like others to serve her, or even get something for nothing, because they are used to being taken care of by others, and they are also used to enjoying. If they are slighted slightly, they will sigh that their lives are thinner than paper, and their hearts are as small as the eyes of a needle, and then they will feel sorry for themselves. The most typical one is Lin Daiyu, who is frowning all day, as if everyone owes her.
Prescription: don’t linger in front of the mirror for too long. Go out and learn to find others’ good; When you are sad, you can try to do a good thing to move yourself and let yourself stand in the sun instead of playing tricks.
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