Seven signals show that falling in love with him is a waste of time

1. I want you to focus on him.

One of the great characteristics of men who waste your time is that they stick to you all the time. You will find that he can’t wait to be with you 24 hours a day. Even if he is absent in a few cases, he will “bomb” you by phone and SMS. Please don’t associate with such possessive men, because they will take up all your time and energy and can’t be yourself.

2. He often “disappears”

If your boyfriend often plays “missing” without any reason, please say bye bye to him. Now that communication is so developed, if he doesn’t want to contact you, what is the need for this relationship to continue?

3. Emotionally abusing you

Emotional abuse includes many different forms, such as criticism, humiliation, contempt and so on. If his behavior makes you feel uncomfortable, leave him decisively, because his presence will blow your self-esteem and self-confidence, and make you feel that you are not good enough.

4. Always treat you like an interrogator

This kind of man is terrible. Once your behavior makes him uncomfortable, he will frequently criticize you. Leave him and don’t let his negative emotions affect you!

5. He is unwilling to make efforts in gender relations.

A healthy relationship between the sexes must be mutual. If he is not willing to make efforts, he will only make you emotionally exhausted. This is unequal and unreasonable.

6. He has another person to worry about.

This person may be a woman who has had a long-term relationship with him, or his ex-wife, or even his current wife, which makes him hesitate to give up. The worst case is that he tells you that he can’t leave each other or it’s difficult to choose between you two. What is the need to miss such a man?

7. He has emotional deficiency

A man’s lack of emotion will bury bad factors in your relationship, such as fear of confessing to girls because of his inferiority complex, having suffered emotional injuries, and so on. If he can’t overcome this, it’s difficult to bring happiness to each other in every emotional relationship.