Step 1: sometimes dress up
Dress up and feel unique. This is obviously the opposite of the first step. Although you get along well with each other, you can’t be lazy. Take time to dress up. Make your man think you are sexy. He will certainly appreciate your efforts and find you more attractive. Maybe he will also start to pick up his appearance in return.
Step 2: (at home) you can burp loudly
You must lower your standards. Put down the mentality of defense and vigilance, and don’t pay attention to etiquette in everything. That is to say (sometimes) you can gobble, burp, etc. Of course, things have to be cleaned up in the end, but doing so can make you feel comfortable with each other. This is an important first step.
Step 3: prepare a private recipe comparable to the restaurant level
If you want to get a man’s heart, you must first grasp his stomach. A good cook will definitely add points to the image of your perfect girlfriend. So I try to learn how to cook more delicious dishes. If you can’t cook yet? In this case, you can only make a list of nearby takeout shops. This is very critical, because once a man is hungry, he will not have so much thought to pay attention to you (he can only say sorry in advance). Therefore, if you can make a man not hungry, he will focus more on you (it should be so, because you are almost the perfect girlfriend).
Step 4: leave some private space for him
Your love is of course very important, but friendship is also very important to him. He loves you, but some things can only be given to him by his friends. So you have to reach a consensus through negotiation, leave him some space, so that love and friendship can be balanced.
Step 5: listen carefully
It is important to listen carefully. Men like to explain. Sometimes even if you can’t understand what he says, you’d better be as tolerant as possible, because if you do, he will do the same to you. His explanation will not last too long, and he will appreciate that you listened to him attentively.
Step 6: protect men’s self-esteem
Although men look strong, their self-esteem is sometimes fragile. Sincere praise can make your boyfriend feel good about himself. You should let him know that you are aware of his efforts to improve the relationship. The most important thing is to communicate when you have ideas, but never criticize.
Step 7: the synchronization rate of bed life is very important
An additional step (not for everyone). Bedroom etiquette. Please note that men’s normal sexual desire is equivalent to women’s highest sexual desire during menstruation. Now you know how much we yearn. Please be tolerant in the future. If you are not in the state, please gently tell your man to let him know that it is not his fault (always remember to protect the self-esteem of men). Tip: for any reason (religion, age, culture, etc.), you are not ready to let your relationship rise to this stage, and do not feel pressured. He should and must respect your values.
Step 8: congratulations on successfully completing all steps
(in my opinion) you are already the perfect girlfriend. amazing!
Tips and warnings:
1. Mutual respect is very important. If he doesn’t respect your value orientation, he may not respect you either.
2. At least spend some time every month to make some changes, and then make some changes every week. Remember how you did it in the first place. Compare and make changes.
3. We should be the wind that lifts his wings, because behind every successful man there is a great woman.
4. Don’t be afraid to say what you think (as long as you think it over carefully.)
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