Japanese media teach you to become a love expert. Moderation is the most important thing

According to Japan’s livedoor news network, differences in values are a big problem in interpersonal communication, but also a common problem.

1. Too much dedication

Doing too much can easily become a burden for the other party. With the idea of making the other party happy, you cook and wash for him like an industrious wife, hoping that he will remember your kindness and cherish you more. However, meeting each other every day will make him feel bored. Of course, his boredom will inevitably cause your dissatisfaction. A vicious circle will follow, and eventually one shot and two shots will break up. Therefore, equal interpersonal relationship is very important.

2. Too much tolerance

A little tolerance and concession are very necessary. Some problems can be easily solved as long as they are explained clearly. But if you are too tolerant, keep things in your heart, and when you quarrel later, it will all burst out. It’s easy to make the other party resentful, thinking that you like to dig up old accounts and get entangled. Therefore, it is also very important to clarify and solve problems on the spot.

3. Too jealous

Always check the relationship between the other party and friends of the opposite sex. Being overly jealous will only make the other party feel tired. When two people are together, he will also feel monitored and tired. Excessive jealousy will become ugly jealousy. Therefore, it is essential to leave free time and space for each other and yourself.

4. Blame too much

Always like to compare with others, think that others are like that, complain about why you are not, that is because you forget: everyone has his own way of communication. Therefore, don’t complain and blame each other just because you are different from others. Understand each other and love each other is the truth.

Everything is due to moderation, once excessive, it will only become a burden for the other side. Falling in love is the same as ordinary interpersonal communication. Only by learning to think in a different way can you become a true love expert.