A man is an umbrella, which can shield a woman from the wind and rain. A man is a tree, which can let a woman rely on to breathe. A man is a boat that can let a woman from one shore to the other. A man is a vent, which can let a woman vent her dissatisfaction. Men are toys that can let women play at will. Men are vigorous white horses, which can be ridden by women at will. While the book of man is full of strange and mysterious things, women must have the skills and ability to read.
first reading: Men’s friends
As the saying goes, those who approach ink will be black and those who approach Zhu will be red. Follow good and evil as quickly as possible. If you don’t help yourself, you’ll be straight. To read a man, first read his friends. If a man is full of dignitaries, his friends are all celebrities, with good and evil, high spirits, ideals, morality, taste, self-restraint, culture, talent, reason, advance and retreat, management and good words. Then, this man must be extraordinary. On the contrary, if his friends are all criminals, they are all ignorant, harbouring evil intentions, deceiving one another, speculating, bullying the good, and running amok in the countryside.
Well, this man is no better. If a man is surrounded by all literati, he must also be a literati. If a man is surrounded by all military generals, he must also be a military general. If a man is surrounded by businessmen, he must also be a businessman. If a man is surrounded by honest and good people, he must be honest and good people. If a man is surrounded by corrupt officials, he must be corrupt. If a man is surrounded by experts who hold “mistresses” and “whores”, then it is needless to ask whether he is also a habitual offender of cheating. The accuracy of reading a man from a man’s friend is nine times out of ten.
second reading: Men’s careers
Confucius said, “you must not be careless in your art.”. It means that you must not be careless in choosing a career. And a man’s career can determine a man’s character, taste, thought, attitude to life and even moral norms. For example, a policeman and a teacher have different attitudes towards life. For example, a senior official and a professor have very different ways of doing things. For example, a businessman and a migrant worker have different views on marriage. Bodyguards, court watchers, thugs, valets, guards are absolutely different from bosses, brokers, managers, captains and foremen. Their outlook on life and values are fundamentally different. What kind of career, what kind of man. What kind of career has what kind of soul. What kind of career, what kind of mind. The self-confidence of the police, the nagging of the teachers, the care of the doctors, the shrewdness of the businessmen, the scholar of the students, the ferocity of the thugs, the slippery footmen, the greed of the officials, the honesty of the farmers, the punctuality of the workers, and the integrity of the soldiers are all clearly written on their faces and on the tombstones of their own careers.
Among all men, women should be especially careful of one kind of man: the man who has no career but can still live well. This kind of man is the most terrible, hateful, hateful and pitiful man. They are masters at playing with women, social hoodlums, half hooligans. They do not commit major crimes and make small mistakes. At first glance, they are good, but at second glance, they are bad. They are oily men who earn money from their parents, rub on neighborhood oil and cheat friends. Such men are often informants of the Public Security Bureau, reporting mahjong playing in the neighborhood, burying the elderly by villagers, fighting between husband and wife, beating a pheasant by friends, and bullying the hawkers. This kind of men often steal friends’ wives, neighbors’ wives, and even incest, which is very obscene.
third reading: a man’s family
Whose blood is flowing in a man’s blood vessels and whose cells are stored in a man’s genes are the key links for women to understand men. A coward’s blood cannot make a hero. Brain cells with intellectual disabilities can’t make scientists. Blood, genes and heredity are closely related to personality, ability, health and morality. A family has a family’s personality characteristics, and a gene has a gene’s genetic characteristics. This is not genius, this is materialism. Blood makes a family, family makes a personality, and personality makes a man. Of course, things are not absolute, and family rebels often appear. But after all, this is an accident, a minority, and an example. At least, through a man’s family, we can see a man’s taste, moral direction and way of life.
Fourth reading: man’s temperament
Man’s temperament is the reflection of man’s comprehensive quality. Man’s temperament is the concrete embodiment of a man’s social status, economic conditions, job level, cultural accomplishment and personality in his words and deeds. A man’s temperament includes a man’s hair, head shape, eyes, eye color, eyesight, face color, facial expression, facial shape, body waist, trend, sitting posture, standing posture, voice, speech speed, tone, gesture, posture, body shape, etc. There is a British proverb that a person can become a nouveau riche in a short time, but it takes at least three lives for a person to develop an aristocratic temperament.
Isn’t it? Some men become rich overnight because of mining and are worth hundreds of millions, but they still have poor taste when they make a full investment, raise their hands and open their mouth. Generally speaking, a man with good temperament is a good man. Men’s temperament is poor, and women should be particularly careful, but there are exceptions, which should be supplemented from the following points. In short, if a woman wants to understand a man, she must first understand his temperament. Of course, there are many ways for women to understand men, but the most important thing is the above four points. It can really be said that four o’clock determines the man and woman determines the world.
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