first, I’m afraid of falling in love with others, and I’m even more afraid of falling deeply in love with others.
Some love phobic patients are not confident in themselves, so they are afraid that they will fall in love with others deeply, but others will not treat themselves with the same feelings. This phenomenon is often unacceptable to love phobic patients.
Second, fear of injury and rejection
Love phobic patients dare not express themselves even if they are deeply in love with each other. They are afraid that the other party will reject them, and thus dislike themselves. This idea makes love phobic patients fall into deep anxiety and panic. They often prefer to fall in love with one another rather than express their feelings to the other party.
III. fear of being in the moment of love, fear of losing everything in love
Some love phobic patients worry that they will lose friends because of love, so they would rather keep an ambiguous relationship than fall in love.
IV. fear of hurting others and losing a heart of freedom
I am afraid that after falling in love, I will never return to my previous life. I am afraid that I love each other more than myself.
v. fear of wasting a lot of spare time because of love
Always unwilling to lose freedom, afraid of losing the freedom and personal space when I was single because of love.
The above five symptoms are the main symptoms of love phobia. Of course, it is not ruled out that individual patients may have other symptoms. After all, everyone’s love experience, love outlook, outlook on life and personality characteristics are different, so it is impossible to have the same symptoms. If you find yourself with some similar symptoms, you must consult a doctor at the hospital as soon as possible.
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