I. too fast investment
When you first met him, don’t expect to spend every weekend with him, or insist on providing advice to him and rearranging his home. Don’t be impatient. You are not married yet!
Second, it is too early to identify the other party.
The quickest way to break up with your boyfriend is to tell him that you love him and that you want to have a child for him. His reaction is mostly to flee without a trace.
III. self deception
Do you know the motivation behind every performance? Is his attitude towards you very bland? Is he dating another girl at the same time? Do you only contact him once a week, and you recognize that he is the one who can be trusted for life? Or you think that his gambling addiction and violent temper are not serious problems… Don’t deceive yourself and others!
IV. exaggerated dressing
You should be confident, generous and decent. The attraction does not lie in showing off your sexuality too much. Men think that natural attraction is much better than artificial face.
v. talking too much
Don’t think you must keep talking. Silence is golden. Even if you are eager to get to know each other, you don’t need to tell your life experiences like a treasure in the first few dates. Silence is often one of the charm of women.
6. Pay too much attention to his money
If you order a lobster dinner and tell him that your favorite gift is diamonds, eat it to your heart’s content. You will never see a man again, no matter how rich he is, or like to be told how to spend it or who to spend it on. Men like knowledgeable women, not those who are looking for long-term meal tickets.
VII. premature invite him home
Don’t invite him home unless you feel that he is inviting you into his life. Some men think that inviting him home means inviting him to bed, so wait a little longer. After you have a better understanding, there will be no similar embarrassing scenes.
8. Making out too quickly with the other party
If you slept with him when you first met him, he would think how many men should have made out with you? Therefore, this kind of intimacy often scares the other party. The first time we meet is the best time to have a frank conversation and walk under the moon. These will become the solid foundation of our feelings.
IX. trying too hard to please the other party
Do you think he will like you better if you wash his clothes, cook and do housework for him? Please think carefully again. If you are willing to be his foot cloth, he will step on it without hesitation.
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