1. Whether the declaration is successful or not is a fixed number.
Whether the place is a romantic restaurant or under a bridge, whether the keepsake is a fragrant car rose or a text card, whether the means are implicit, tortuous or straightforward, it will not have a great impact on the result of confession. The previous impression of you and the preparation you made are the key to success.
In reality, we can see that even if some men kneel down and beg, women may ignore them. Some boys put candles and rose petals under the dormitory building, and it is not uncommon for the other party to refuse; If two people are happy with each other, holding hands and chatting on the street for a few moments, they can decide their lives privately. As I said, the form of confession is not important, but the preparation made before is the most important.
2. Since you are timid, it’s better to choose a place where no one is around.
In fact, not all confessions need to be witnessed by everyone. If the other party agrees, there is nothing wrong with it, but once you refuse, you will be very embarrassed. In contrast, since you only want to tell him what you think, it’s better to find a place where no one is there and confide your love quietly, or if you dare not, it’s better to send him a text message. I don’t agree. Nobody knows except you and him; I agree. It’s not too late to show off to friends.
3. Confession is a serious matter.
Friends around you may give you advice to confess when you are drunk. At this time, people will be more courageous. Once the other party refuses, they can say that they were confused at that time; Some people say that it is better to declare your love on April Fool’s day. If you refuse, you will be said to be joking to save some face.
To be honest, both methods are very unwise. It is easy to make the other party think that your confession is just a casual joke, and even make men mistakenly think that you are not serious about feelings. Similarly, smart men will also effortlessly refuse you: sorry, you really drank too much at that time! After that, no matter how you explain it, he will use it as an excuse to make you appear very passive.
Confession is a very serious matter. You can be indifferent in your heart, but at least you should show a very serious attitude.
4. There is no need to force him to say “yes” and “no”
The intention of expressing your love is more to express your love for him than to force him to say the result of leaving or staying. Even if he refuses you at the beginning, you don’t have to be angry or even threaten the other party, causing huge psychological pressure to the other party. If two people get into a stalemate, he will have no choice.
Smart women will give men enough time to think before each other makes a decision: you may not know me well before, so you don’t need to rush to reply. If you can, we might as well go out for a while and make a decision after you think it over.
A smart woman will imply everything clearly, why she chose to fall in love with him, what parts of him fascinate her, and then guess his worries from his tone. In the next days, women should try their best to eliminate the worries and doubts of each other, so that he can feel that it is worthwhile to fall in love with himself.
In this way, the other party will naturally become confused and change their attitude towards you. The woman once again completely held the whole situation.
5. Can women take the initiative to express themselves
There are also some girls who are not afraid to express themselves, but unwilling to do so. Because they often hear people say that women can’t be too active, otherwise they will spoil men and make men feel that you are humble.
In fact, we often say that women can’t be too active, which in no way means that women can’t express themselves to men and speak out their ideas boldly; But after being rejected by the other party, the woman still pursues him time and again and acts according to the man’s face. Such behavior will spoil the man and make him feel that you are cheap.
The reason why people express their love is to let the other party understand their own thoughts and let them love you. Since it is impossible for them to understand with actions, why not express their feelings and let the other party clearly understand?
The party who took the initiative to express his love did not show how humble, and the party who accepted his love did not have anything to show off. It’s not as difficult as you think, really.
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