“We quarreled again yesterday.” What are you arguing about? Forget! In most cases, lovers quarrel not because of cheating or cheating, but often because of boring trivia such as eating, sleeping and watching TV. When they wake up the next morning, they forget what trivial things they were angry about yesterday. However, over time, this may also cause the two sides to quarrel again when disputes break out in the future, which is one of the reasons for “breaking up”. Recently, a French male writer published the book “cats spit up”, which records from the perspective of men how the insignificant mantra in daily life ignited a world war between them. Here are the key sentences of lovers’ quarrels that rank first in women’s hearts. Have you and your lover ever been fired up by these wonderful key sentences?
can you give me the remote control
The power relationship between men and women is fully demonstrated when a lazy couple is watching TV on the sofa! What’s amazing is that the probability that men and women want to watch the same programs is close to zero. When you want to watch entertainment programs, what they want to watch is action movies; When he wants to watch the sports channel, you want to watch the food program. In the face of such a delicate situation, who should give in? A short “can I have the remote control?” It means that one party is giving orders, and when the other party is unwilling to obey, a fierce war breaks out, and the result is usually either you or I die. If you don’t want to start the Second World War, you can consider hiding the remote control, turning on the TV set, buying another TV set immediately, or starting to find your soul mate (from now on, you must specify the TV programs you like to watch in your dating conditions).
will you sleep over
This sentence hides a meaning – although two people sleep together in the same bed, the size of the bed has not changed, and the size of the quilt has not changed. When it is sweet, it is OK for two people to squeeze into a single bed, but as long as there are pimples in their hearts, they will feel how the bed is so small when they sleep! Why isn’t the quilt covered enough! I keep shouting in my heart: why do you sleep all the time? I need more space for myself… At this time, the picture in my mind is: how comfortable it is to kick the other party into the bed and roll around on the huge bed alone… At this critical moment, I blurt out: Honey, will you sleep a little more?
did you order potato chips
It is clearly said that two people should forge ahead with each other, help each other and trust each other, and move towards weight loss together… But you opened potato chips!!! Haven’t you considered my mood and feelings? Did you selfishly betray me and leave me alone in the abyss of dieting to lose weight and bear great pain alone? Don’t you know that I lose weight because of you Why are you eating potato chips alone without thinking of sharing them with me? ” The lesson we have learned from now on is: before eating any food, please ask your Dharma Master if you want to share the beautiful feeling brought by food together. If he refuses, don’t let him discover that you have this pleasure alone.
is the food I make terrible
When an animal such as human is confronted with something wrong, it will not only admit its mistake, but also attack and deny its target. Especially when you prepare food for your lover wholeheartedly, with love and expectation, if you don’t get the sincere praise of the other party immediately, it is equivalent to being poured with a gallon of cold water. “Is the food I’ve made awful?” When you are asked this question, it means that you have lost: your acting skills are not good enough, your reaction is not fast enough, and you have not given the affirmation required by the other party. If you don’t tell the truth at this time, answer: “well, it’s a little salty.” Congratulations, you have successfully started the war!
Why are you turning here
There are more than one kinds of disputes that may arise when driving, including: “Hey, do you want me to drive the car!” “Why are you driving so fast / slow?” And “Why are you turning here?” Use various ways to imply that the other party’s driving skills are poor, the speed is not mastered, the sense of direction is not good, and so on. For men, this often hurts self-esteem; For women, it means negation. As I mentioned just now, negation will trigger attacks… If you choose to start a war in a car, you will probably end up: honey, why are you sitting in this car? Please walk home! Therefore, for everyone’s safety, it is the best policy for those who sit in the front passenger seat to shut up.
you didn’t hear what I said to you
Turning a blind eye and a deaf ear can be said to be the highest level of cultivation. You can anger the other party without a bullet, because you don’t pay attention to the other party at all. Of course, this is likely to happen when you are already relaxed, tired and tired. You want to sleep and don’t want to continue chatting. You doze off accidentally. When you wake up, you hear “you haven’t heard what I said to you!” No matter how you explain that your heart is surplus but your strength is insufficient, you can’t recover the decline. However, if it is not because of being too tired and busy, and this situation still happens frequently, it may mean that the love appreciation period between you has expired. At this time, there is no need to waste saliva and complain, and the next lover may be better.
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